It's not that I don't want to love someone who may be struggling financially, but personally, I'd prefer to find a woman who's already got their things together. Someone with a stable job, mentally strong, and not afraid to work hard. ( no OF pls 📸👯‍♀️😂). I'm 42 this year, and I don't want to waste my time babysitting or taking on someone else's unresolved issues. Life is too short to not be with someone who's already on their feet and ready for a healthy, balanced relationship.