Men don’t like when women go against the grain period. Women are told from day dot that their looks and fitting into what society deems as attractive is their only valuable asset. So once you start saying ‘f*ck your standards’ they know you’re not going to be the type of woman who can be controlled easily. Also, there’s just a tonne of saddos out there who still think the most painful place to hit us is our looks because they’re *the only thing that matter*