It's easy. If you are unable to provide for a child, then don't have a child at all. You can make choices but your kids can't. They deserve a good life. Think about it. You had faced poverty before and you know how hard it was, but now you want to make your child go through what you had gone through before? That poverty tortured you, and you know what kind of human it made you into. Think wisely. This is not only about them, but about YOU too.