I got what I wanted an antique old mine Diamond, from 1910 , old mine are chunky & look amazing under low light. To answer your? My husband gave me what I wanted. To me this is the one & only ring, every time I look at this ring it reminds me what we have went through to get this far & most of all more to come ❤️

No you’re not petty, stupid or obnoxious that ring means a circle unbroken! I don’t know why people are so hateful… ?

Yes. He paid absolutely no attention to your tastes and preferences. Since it’s something you’ll wear forever, it should’ve been a ring you like. I’d be super upset honestly and likely question if he was the right person for me. If my likes were ignored for something so significant as an engagement ring, how often will they be ignored through marriage.

The first man who proposed to me got me an off center diamond. It always bothered me, even though the diamond was lovely. It was a metaphor for the whole relationship- off centre. The second man who proposed to me gave me the most beautiful ring I could dream of and we’ve been happily married for 20 years. Bottom line. It matters.

Ask him to replace the ring!! If getting the wrong ring was an honest mistake then he should have no problem getting a new one. *Also know someone who did the above and they’ve been married over 10 years + have 2 kids already

Yeah imagine if it was an expensive car, they both drive but you were specific and open on what you want and he made a hugely significant financial decision about that + it’s more important because it’s a relationship milestone

You’re absolutely allowed to be unhappy & upset 😢 this is a ring your’e going to wear for YEARS‼️ He screwed up - this is your chance right now before you get married to set the bar and draw some boundaries for yourself, your communication and how you expect to be treated‼️ Take the ring and get one you love 💙 💍 otherwise you’ll just resent it and be bitter (trust me I know from my own experience with this) and I call BS on his statement that he has better taste than you‼️😉

This is the equivalent of actively saying “I don’t like roses” many times and the one time he buys you flowers, he gives you roses. It shows a lack of give a cares. He didn’t pay attention to your likes, desires or wants. He’s showing that he doesn’t care to put in the effort you deserve

I wouldn’t be angry but I wouldn’t accept the proposal either.

This is one of those things that people are really weird about. It’s your ring. You are supposed to wear it forever, you should pick it. If you put in effort to pick it and he ignored it for style reasons (not financial reasons) then talk to him. Go pick one together, there doesn’t need to be ego involved it’s your ring. 🤷🏻‍♀️