Men get a rough deal here and I’m sure some of it is justified. But what about the quiet, reliable, competent, sexy men who put a woman‘s pleasure first, who are honest and trustworthy, who have capable household skills, who can seduce you with cooking, who can listen, share deep ideas, explore the outdoors with you, converse articulately, love affection and sensuality, have emotional intelligence and sexual control? We seem to get rubbished with the rest.