Rasanya ini bukan kes parents zaman “sekarang”, tapi memang sejak dulu lagi kebanyakan ibu bapa yang ada anak ramai akan sedikit sebanyak pass tanggungjawab pada anak sulung. Lagi2 kalau sulung tu perempuan. It’s ingrained in our culture and possibly many other cultures too. We can try our best to break this cycle and treat our older (or oldest) kids better.