I think relationships are one giver and one taker from fourty plus years of giving and still giving being cheated on lied to and so much more I could say but if you can't say something nice say nothing at all basic God is with me or I would have went to hell and the wrong side long ago maybe someday God will send me a true forever mate who wants to do for me for awhile for all the good I have and beauty I exzude and the kindness I have in my soul