Unpopular opinion: You're NOT an OT8 if you say "I have a soft spot for a certain member." Like, come on, that's just a fancy way of saying they’re your bias. It’s fine to have a bias or bias wrecker, I have both. But I admit it. But if you OT8 if one member is getting more love than the others, you're not really OT8. OT8 means you love them all equally, so stop pretending like you're all about the whole group when you’re clearly giving a little extra attention to one person. Keep it real, babe.