seat_of_tara 1m I was bartending in England many many years ago and a British army officer heard my last name, after which he looked disgusted and shot me a foul looks from the edge of the room until he finished his drink. I'm wyt (irish) aussie and didn't realise I could ne hated because of my name. it also occured to me that ppl put up with this shite EVERY. DAY.