He’s come home to die. Today he was in told the chemo would kill him. They also can’t get his pain under control because it all gets processed in his liver. At least it’s not constant. I’m used to being the one sitting by the person’s side every minute. This time it’s not my place. I will do what I can. He will probably be gone in a few weeks and even though I will be grief stricken I will also do what I can to help his wife as they helped me 15 years ago when my husband died.