I have parents & in-laws who feel like they should be able to just show up at my house whenever they want without notice. I'm not ok with this for 3 reasons: 1. Both my husband and I are introverts. 2. We do have responsibilities that can't always be pushed to the side. 3. We want our house to be clean first. They ignore the first 2 reasons and always say that they don't care about the 3rd one. But WE care. Shouldn't our feelings matter? It's weird to me that they don't even consider that. 🤔