I am old friends from back onthe 80s and late 90s got married and now she keeps popping up as a FB friend recommendation.i have never met this woman, but she is fightingg cancer right now. i keep dismissing the suggestions see most of her FB posts any how because of who she married I hope she beats cancer and gets to live a long life with my friend, but unless I have some sort of real meaningfull interaction with someone i will not add them on FB. Am I am asshole for holding this standard?