On my second month and agree with everything you said! I'm 46.

Shitty doctors don’t listen to women. I was told for 15 years by my psychiatrist that I was “too high functioning” to have ADHD, even though my therapist and I thought otherwise. My new psychiatrist assessed me and diagnosed me last year at 52. Two days after starting the medication, it was like my anxiety decreased dramatically in addition to other positive outcomes. Of course, now that the world is falling apart, I am more anxious, but I can’t imagine how I would feel without my medication