It’s better for you to put a crying baby safely down away from you, to cry. Than shaking the baby. I understand the difficulties mums with PND goes through. But it’s not an excuse for shaking a baby to death. What was the point of carrying that baby for 9 months, then bring them to the world with excruciating pain,only to be murder by the hands that bore him. Before the baby is born. create a strategy with steps to follow in difficult situations you might face after the baby is born. Seek help!