Hey babe. Hope you can have some time to read The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle. It changed me, it changed my husband and our relationship dynamics. Have some time to listen to her podcast too. Initially I was skeptical but once I practice the book, everything changed. Looking at your picture, I assumed you’re a surgeon. I was a surgical MO and had a very masculine thinking.

Ntahlah sis, you still making excuses for the man. I don't know why is that. Since you still making excuses for him, what's the point of telling your story here? Wasting your precious time?

I hope you feel better now after venting it all out. Tbh, I sort of understand the hesitation and contemplation. No marriage is ever perfect. There are many highs and even more lows sometimes. But, the good thing is, in life, we get to choose our kind of 'hard'. So which one do you choose and don't mind putting up with? I think you need to sit down and really ask yourself the difficult questions and be honest with yourself. He's improved a lot but some ppl don't really change