I realize i’m in a trauma bond. But i dont know how to explain this, my husband is wonderful to the kids. He takes care of them well when i’m not around for calls/class. He cleans the house often. He is generally soft spoken on most days. In everyone’s eyes, even ij mine, he is like this model husband. Even my family said i am so lucky to have him since he takes such good care of the kids. And i think that this, is my biggest dilemma. He is also nice on most days.