Dont look at it like that. I always say, you dont need to achieve to be happy. Be happy with ehat you have. Loved ones, friends, the memories are what matter. Im with you tho but its not easy nowadays then it was 20 -30 years ago. I have a roof over my head. Rents paid. Got a job and a lovely wife with 3 cats. Im content. Be content with what makes you happy. We only live once