They have yet to learn to love themselves enough to leave. It takes courage.

Letting go can be difficult and there’s always a hidden benefits keeping you there

I saw too many synchronities. I never met someone I liked so much. That made me ignore all the red flags thinking that every relationship has its things. But she was playing a game...and at some point the game just grew so evil that I snapped. Breadgrumbs became less and attitude got bad, that was my cue to stop staying silent of those things that I tought were just relationship things. So dunno, needed to get that lesson maybe and her immaculate acting skills made me stay for too long.