Bringing 8 guests on a first date is bananas I mean really 10 people are needed to go on the first date 🤦🏾‍♂️, Ladies this level of no self-respect or desperation has to stop you are doing yourself no good service by continuing to carry yourself as if you're some kind of glamorous victim that deserves everything and offers nothing but expenses. I mean really it's almost like y'all are attracted to everything else but the man.