hey, just in case no one asked—how are you, really? I know u're fighting, waking up every day and choosing to keep going, even when it feels like all they see are your mistakes. Maybe u're exhausted, feeling like no matter what you do, you're always wrong. But until when? until when will you chase validation, letting their words control you? let them talk, let them judge, but don’t let them define you. You don’t owe them perfection. Stop carrying the weight of pleasing everyone.