My husband and I family planning untuk child-free for around 2-5 years maximum. I'm quite open about it because I see no harm in it. Besides, our reasonings are quite valid to do what we are doing. Even if we don't, it's our marriage and not anyone else so why bother. While my husband pulak macam takut-takut and tak berapa nak open about it sebab his controlling and pushy dad, sampaikan he asked me to lie about this matter. 1. We both LDR and jumpa sebulan 1 kali dan tak sampai 1 hari setengah.