When they blame you instead of being accountable for the role THEY played, and for what THEY did, please understand that their deflection from what they did and has absolutely nothing to do with you! It’s always hard when a relationship ends and you know you didn’t do anything wrong. It’s even more hurtful when someone discards you and then creates a false story about you and what really happened so that they can deflect from their bad behaviours and disrespectful treatment of you.