Women Today: Should You Be Selfless or Selfish? Too much selflessness can lead to burnout and being taken for granted. Too much selfishness can isolate and harm relationships. A woman who values herself knows: ✅ Giving is beautiful, but not at the cost of her well-being. ✅ Saying no doesn’t make her unkind. ✅ Taking care of herself allows her to care for others better. ⬇️💝🥀🌹