NOT Selfish at all! You're being honest and that's awesome. I am in a similar situation. My dad passed away 2021, mom diagnosed with Alzheimer's 2023 and I moved in with her to take care of her. My husband lives in our house 5 minutes away. Life is a challenge. It's a sad situation having to care for a mom that raised you. But it's a gift to be able to give back. Remember you are amazing!! I'm a super baby Stay (12/2024) and I thank God ever day for Stray Kids Stay. Hang in there!