Nothing you do to a woman is forgotten. No matter how handsome you are, you can get any woman you want, but you have chosen her. Any name calling or abuse you do to her at the start of your relationship, might destroy you later in life. When you get old no longer handsome, she will stap you with the pain you caused her. Or she will tourture you with the memories pain. When a woman makes a decision based on painful memories, you can forget about kneeling on your knees begging for her forgiveness