This is true, and the solution starts with us. Until men begin setting boundaries and reevaluating manhood, it’ll continue. Too many men automatically associate “man” with “provider”, and they’re stressing over it. Instead, focus on who you actually are as a man, and put “provider” on an optional shelf with other optional roles such as firefighter, doctor, etc.. Women aren’t to blame for this.

Then when you look up the statistics of Men committing suicide it would make your heart melt even more! This is why we as Black Women must speak like into our Black Men! Show them appreciation for the small things! Give them a safe place and also value their feelings without throwing it back in their face or emasculate them for what they share! ❤️

This convo was had on twitter. And due to a lot of those men the conditioned love started with cheating, lack of respect, and no effort in romance. I don’t even think that just apply to men. Any partner who does something that shouldn’t be tolerated within love should be conditioned.

Blame these moronic females that have radicalised feminism.

Wow the fact that you’re now finding this out and haven’t been smart enough to realize this after more than 2 decades of being alive is the reason why this exists.

Unfortunately for generations on in they went along with what society told them to do. Men who heal and unlearn this toxic way of being know that they are more than a provider and they choose women who inner-stand that they are more than just a provider. When these men get intune with themselves, they move differently and they don’t accept societal expectations.

Only 2 females in a man's life will ever love him unconditionally. His Mother and his Daughter.

How can this be true? Dogs are surrendered all the time due to bad behavior or circumstances and children are cut off from their families if/when they may disagree with certain ideologies. Men leave their wives when she becomes ill way more often than not. Yes men are valued based on output. But Plenty of ppl love people who absolutely NOTHING for them esp women & children. Kids love absent parents all the time. So this just seems like an narrow outlook..

I see a lot of people on Threads parroting points from the book: "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Deida

Women too have an obligation to contribute to society in different ways alongside man. I think people don’t consider that enough as well, and we are driving ourselves towards societal decay and extinction.