No one told me to stay in shape, no one really expected that? I just did what I wanted and honestly nearing the end that was just being a couch potato most of the time. I’m now 3 months pp, and I’m thinking of getting in shape again but again, I’ll do that when I’m ready and want to. Currently have a lot of other things on my mind. It’s not triggering, but I do feel it’s a bit of a weird take.

It’s not an excuse for doubling your body weight, but if you’re ready to leave your wife if her body doesn’t look the way it did before giving birth to YOUR child, you never loved her in the first place and just used her as an incubator