Sebenarnya, bukan semua family ada budaya bawa tunang berbuka kat rumah or any events. I faham you tetamu, mungkin diorg pun terkejut n kelam kabut dah nk berbuka. My advice, don't put any expectations org layan kita mcm kita layan org. Nnt u akan ada byk lg frustration. Sebelum you halal dgn dia, don't go to his family house lagi okay, unless u dtg dgn family.