Mamas I need your advice! My husband and I are on the fence about having a third baby. We have two daughters, 5 and 2.5. There are days when we feel like we’re finally getting our life back but then the baby fever kicks in and we’re all for it. Who went for the third? And who was two and done?! For reference I’m 35 and my husband is 37. Our age also holds us back at times. Will we be able to keep up?! 😅

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一小時內	Kivi Maruda kivi_maruda	5 and 2yo. 3rd is coming. I’m 37. This baby is a surprise baby. I don’t want to be pregnant. I don’t want to have more kids. I will get crazy. I’m more depressed than ever. I know there is a reason for this surprise but for now.. it sucks
一小時內	Missy m0mmy.me.time	I had my 3rd at 37. My boys were 2 and 3 at the time. You’ll be fine lol with your eldest being 5 already, there will be at least 1 pretty independent child. I’d say go for it!
3 小時內	Crystal a_great_many_things	Hahahahahhaha. 3 is different. You're outnumbered. Let me be your warning.
4 小時內	Kimberly Sansom (Duerr) kimberlysansomite_15	My husband thought two was great (Boys 5 and 2.5 now) but even after I had my second I couldn’t shake the feeling we were done. I knew I had more love to give! With lots of prayer (I gave it all to God). We welcomed our sweet girl Isla to the mix back in December. I remember my mom always saying, “you may regret never having another but you will never regret having one more!”. After our third I felt a deep sense of peace with her being our little caboose 🥹 Godisgood
9 小時內	Zach Strassburger zstrassburger	We had our 3rd when I was 36. I love him dearly but it’s been a LOT. Financially, energy-wise, and more. Kiddo also has some disabilities that make things that much harder. I can’t answer the question of whether I’d do it again knowing all that I do. I love him now, but.
13 小時內	Chelsea Groome chelsea_groome	We are 2 and done and I just felt it in my gut. I was passionate about wanting two kids, and I knew after baby 2 that was it. I was selling maternity clothes at 39 weeks pregnant 😂 they’re 6 and 4 now and we love them getting more independent and their sibling bond growing. Trust your gut, whether it’s telling you 2 or 3
16 小時內	Katie Arabie • Baton Rouge Social Media & Digital Marketing thehive.socialmedia	Certainly can’t make a decision for you, but I WILL say, if you make any decision out of love and not fear, it will always work out. For background, I’m a mom of 3. 8,8, and 3. I just knew my family wasn’t complete with 2. I had my youngest at 37. I just turned 40 and I feel better and healthier than ever. Love is a never ending wellspring. We have a strong faith, and believe in Grace, God, and His abundance and faithfulness.
17 小時內	kalee1007 kalee1007	I have 2 boys, 6 & 4. I’m 35, my spouse is 42. We are definitely done. My boys will both be in school this fall and I’m ready for this next phase of parenthood. I may have baby fever every now and then but not enough to want a third. Do whatever you think is best for your family!
18 小時內	Amy amy.lou__	Best decision we ever made was having our 3rd babe. It made no rational sense but his spirit was so strong. You will never regret it. Kids are the best!
19 小時內	Ariel Wood Checketts arielchecketts	We have 3 and I love it. It is chaos for sure, but my kids bring so much laughter and fun into our home. I definitely have never regretted having them. Someone once told me to look down the road 20 years and envision how you see your family.