I very stupidly went over to the ex's house and gave him free stuff and inevitably we slept together and it was mediocre. but it basically ripped out the stitches and reopened the wound after two of the longest most painful months of my life and guess what he did again? he ghosted me again ! after sleeping with me, knowing how much it would hurt me he decided to not speak to me anymore, again, cuz he's a real stand-up guy. he's also a father of a daughter and that scares the crap out of me