I truly wish people allowed space for birth trauma survivors to mourn instead of pushing the “all that matters is a healthy baby” narrative. I have treatment resistant ptsd, yes I’ve tried emdr. I had to take a break because my sessions turned into me just thinking all the worst thoughts about myself and what a failure I am. I now feel like I can’t accomplish anything because I wasn’t able to accomplish the one thing my body was designed to do. It’s been 20 months and I still cry every day bc1