2/2 She declined. We had toddlers in the house at the time. She didn't want them to not know where we were. We checked on her constantly. The cries of agony & quiet screaming we heard from her is nothing someone would willingly endure. NOTHING. She simply didn't want a baby. Now, less than 10 years later, in a better place, she has a baby. Even in her early 20s she was educated. Had a degree. Had a job. She just didn't want to be a mother yet. & that is VALID. Abortion is Healthcare.