"I was planning to marry you" leaves her own wishes a bit out, don't you think. I mean, I can *plan* a promotion, still my boss can say "nope". "I would have loved to marry you" is an entirely different matter. But perhaps I'm splitting hairs here. Sounds manipulative.

guy, 2 people are needed to 'plan' a marriage. one person can only 'hope' 😒

Gaslighter

Id be like “oh yeah? F you” lmao

I’ve experienced this & it was the most manipulating feeling ever. It made me question whether breaking up was the right answer but I was stronger than that because there is no way i’d be comfortable marrying anyone with an already rocky relationship.

“planning”

For all we know, he might never even be planning to marry her. He just said that to have the last word or to plant a seed of regret.

Lmao sounds like he's being a little manipulative or trying to use some guilt thing on her, whatever he's doing he's trying to make her feel bad and he's probably lying about it. Ego maybe? Perhaps he's feeling some way about being the dumpie and not the dumper

If I married my ex that would be my worst nightmare, when I marry my current partner it will be a dream come true, clearly this guy doesn't quite get that he was clearly her nightmare. Many women don't just want a wedding and be married, they want a good and supportive husband too (if you swing that way).

They lying 😂 men say that to keep you around a little longer.