I'd say it isn't a good idea to start an unequally yoked relationship in the first place. Then again, I married a man in my church ans had to divorce due to religious reasons. He was god in his own eyes, and I refused to worship him.

Totally fair. And it's very telling that you expect so much deference based on your unproveable belief in a particular diety. Maybe they broke up with you because their god told them to. Where is your respect for their belief?

A better reason than most

It is absolutely fair to not date someone that has basic differences in life beliefs, religion being one of them. But I agree with other poster’s that it should be something that stops a relationship from starting to begin with. Them dating to convert is just unfair to you.

It’s always fair if someone breaks up with you for any reason under the sun.

Perfectly fair. You doged a bad scene. Life will be better for you.

A lot of people cheat themselves out of possible love under those conditions

Her saying one thing but mentally planning the opposite was absolutely wrong. As for somebody not being able to be with you due to differing faiths, understandable. Some faiths have pretty specific ways of life that you have to conform to and if they realize that their partner isn't going to be able to do that then they, regrettably, I'm sure, can't commit to them. Also im sure it's strange for some to think, due to their faith, that u 2 possibly won't end up in the same place when u both die.

Also a biggie is kids, she'd want them raised in her faith n way of life n you'd want them in yours, major stressers n challenges n compromises n probable fights, so I can understand why 2 ppl of 2 different faiths would worry about being together and may end any relationship due to it. Still, not nice that she went into a relationship with plans to change you.

Very fair