Tanned white women:

I find that women of other races and the black men they date want to believe this so they take anything a bw says or dies towards them a negative because that's what They believe and want to perceive. In Reality 99% of us Do Not Care. We really aren't "looking" at you and hating so get over yourselves You are ones that feel self conscious about Your choice of a mate.

Some melanated people are quick to give away the secret ingredient to our special sauce. Over time that sauce becomes more watered down. Then our OG sauce will be discontinued.

What about a white man dating a black queen ??? Then what !?

We do not give af. Hang it up

In my experience it’s because black men talk bad about black women when they’re pillow talking and this then gets thrown in our faces with actions or repeated words, by white women. We are targeted from all angles and the ones who were supposed to PROTECT us are the ones causing us the most pain. You can love who you love, without turning your back on or dissing your race. I’m happily married to a white guy and have heard all kinds of comments from the same black men. Double standards.

It’s not so much as them saying white wine but when they trash talk black eonem is so disrespectful to all black women. If black women (mothers) were allowed to stay home and raise their children without struggling we would have the soft personality that white wonen have enjoyed for centuries. We deserve that luxury life style as well.

As a very melanin deficient woman, it is mainly black men and men of colour who approach me. I have dated within many different culture. I echo what was said above, we are seen as taking the eligible, successful men. I also think us being in their safe spaces is uncomfortable. For example, when I would be taken to a local Ethiopian restaurant, I felt guilty for making people uncomfortable in their safe space. Also different cultural norms apply to us, when there are expectations placed upon them

History- What happened to Emmet Till at the lies of a white woman and there were many others meeting the same fate.

Black women get upset when black men use it as an opportunity to degrade. You can date her without putting us down. Simple.