The one thing about a narcissistic spirit is it takes 2 to tango. Narcissist feed off a passive aggressive personality and both are self driven. Both are toxic and both need healing. The healing comes from within and how one thinks. Change the thought patterns and change the personality. Acknowledging your own emotions and thought patterns will be the start of your healing process.

Yes. A covert female narc.

If you're an empath and a good person of society, you're extremely vulnerable for a narcissist. They usually discard you when you stand your ground and call them out on their bullshit and see who they really are when they show you their true colors. They're the most bipolar people you can meet, can hit about 4 different emotions in 10 minutes.

Me. I never knew people like this existed. The charmer, the one you feel bad for, the victim, the covert fucking narcissist. The emotional abuse was unreal. The constant gaslighting kept me questioning my damn sanity. The silent treatment, the invalidations, the cheating, the discard, the hoovering (that’s yet to stop), the mind games. I have never cried as much as I have next to this person. And I mean guttural, gut wrenching cries. I sincerely don’t know how I managed to survive any of that.

Like many people, I didn’t know what narcissistic personality disorder was until I was brutally discarded. Then like many of us. We read and do a deep dive and then it’s a light bulb moment and it all clicks. Then all the patterns make sense. All the red flags we refused to see. And because we are loving caring people we think others are like this too. Well that’s not the case. I was floored to know I wasn’t crazy.

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Same!!! Great to be educated but more important to make sure you heal!!!

Me too you are not alone

How do I let him go & get over him???!! 😭😭😭 I’m struggling

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