1. I check my menstrual as that has a lot to do with it for me. 2. I notice where I may be judging or not extending grace when I can and should 3. I find the best way to communicate what I’m feeling and where improvement or teamwork could be in the most loving way, which requires patience and moving through my emotions first 4. I journal I usually notice that our hard times have patterns to them. And they’re always there to support our growth and connection. Thoughts can be deceiving.

We Pray. God brought my husband to me to better me. even when i didnt want to better me. Our relationship isnt anything with God. He always leads me back to the Man he Created for me.

I never got back to love

1. Remember why you said “Yes” 2. That the sun ☀️ will shine again. 3. There isn’t a problem with a person but a problem you both can solve together. 4. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

Marriage is always worth working with and when you get through the first years it’s all worth it.

That’s a tough one. You have to learn to argue respectfully - no name calling, no yelling, no cussing, etc. then try to remember why you fell in love in the first place. Also both people have to be actively working on making things better. If it’s only one of you it is extremely difficult. I also really liked the book, The Five Love Languages. Good luck! 💗

Prayer. Continue to choose and love each other through those times. Talk things through apologize if you're wrong, FORGIVENESS

Communication