There's a lot of people that like getting surprise dates and stuff from their partners. Like, they enjoy the spontaneousness of it

My husband makes plans without consult for the both of us. I love surprises though, not many people do. If I know about it ahead of time I overthink or get extreme anxiety to the point I will cancel it and then be depressed. He has access to my work and home schedule as well as our kids schedules if we need a sitter. A lot of people find it weird but he’s my bff so 🤷🏽‍♀️