I'm trying not to get in threads fights but I see things and have thoughts. On a dating post, I saw comments saying "make sure you're healed", which is a common idea in the current dating advice world. I have to say...I HATE this. Like a person achieves their "healing" like a friggin video game level?!?! And I especially double hate and loathe entirely when this is referring to grief. My dudes. You will never, and dare I say should never be "healed". We are all forever HEALING.

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8 小時內	Matti Wens xcpro	So much this 🥰
11 小時內	Beckie Lynne beckie_lynne_	Word. I don’t need more time alone. I was alone in my marriage. I was alone in my separation. I am alone in widowhood. How can I heal from the trauma of being alone and lonely while still existing in compounded loneliness. Please stop telling lonely people they need to learn to love themselves. I do, and I was under the impression that I deserved someone to love and to love me in return. Imagine that, being traumatized and still being worthy of love?
19 小時內	Emma quiltedchaos	Right?! I had someone tell me they weren't happy in their life so they couldn't go further. That's cool but isn't it a spectrum of being? Is anyone ever happy enough to date? Meh, just let me know you're not feeling it. 🤷‍♀️ A work in progress is an admirable thing too.