Just to show compassion about the situation hypothetically speaking because I feel like they believe that they may or should've took their time to heal and grow conquer unhealed traumas/traumas create generational health... And probably a list of things but that's just a start...

I think more often than not, it’s because they’ve chosen to wait (until some perfectly magical age) + then got really accustomed to sleeping in or doing what they wanted for so long - change is hard. And then it turns into resent. I have zero regrets about having kids young and continuing to have kids. But i don’t know any different. I’ve never lived alone.

I don’t regret my baby at all she’s the best gift I’ve ever received and I’ll do it a million times over for her. However I don’t like that man I had her with, I hate him and I don’t hate anyone, I really wish I had chose a better guy 🤷🏽‍♀️ but that’s my past now and my baby is my future I’m forever grateful for my Arianna 🧸🩷

If you truly notice a feeling of regretting your children that’s a sign you need to get immediate help. Could be post partum or other mental health issues. A woman with no underlying mental health issues/unresolved trauma, truly regretting having a child who she is now “raising” is not a mother, that’s a monster.

Because of weak dedication.

I don’t regret having children, it is hard but it’s lovely to have a family. You need a partner who is a partner and not just a father. For instance, my husband helped and took my son out every evening when I was doing my PhD so I was able to progress with my dissertation. Now he takes both of them so I can do excercise daily. If you don’t have a partner, you need to have money to be able to buy the support.

Its a level of responsibility that you never truly understand until you are a parent. It never ends. Your needs come last always. If you're sick most likely the child is sick as well and you can't just go to bed and rest, you have to nurse them back to health while all you want to do is lie in bed. The everyday struggle is what I couldn't imagine until I had my child. The hardest thing imo is that your needs always come last or not at all.

Anyone else kind of grossed out by the people saying you could only regret your kids if you have PPD or make bad choices? We all know life fucks over everyone, regardless of how well you prepare sometimes. Why can’t women have full autonomy over themselves and their thoughts and have that be valid enough?

I regret it because of the way life is in world. It’s truly awful.

I would say not having the free time anymore it’s almost as if you have to catch it and make the best out of it