1/2 you can’t blame a woman for “choosing” the wrong man to have a child with because let me tell you… i knew my child’s father for 12 years before we dated. we were BEST friends. then we decided to date for about 2 years, we planned our son. the week i found out we were pregnant was the week i found out he was living a whole double life w| a girl in alabama and she was also pregnant. once i told him i knew, he blocked me on everything. i went thru my whole pregnancy alone, gave birth alone. he