No one has the exact same worldview as you do. Sometimes I will hear people make statements about experiences and then apply them universally and we have to be careful doing that. Our worldview is shaped by our lived experiences. What’s “the worst” to you might not be someone else’s worst. Alternatively, if you view someone else’s experience as worse, it doesn’t diminish your pain. Let’s not try to one up each other but instead to try to get curious and empathetic together 🩷

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2 分鐘內	Kylene Terhune, NLP, FDN-P, betrayal recovery coach kyleneterhune	For me, betrayal was worse than my cancer diagnosis and treatment (and that was horrible). But for someone else, cancer may be the biggest trauma in their life. If I then made a statement that said “well as least you didn’t experience this…” that would be cruel! Just because someone hasn’t experience the SAME pain as you doesn’t mean anything. And YOUR pain doesn’t make you better than anyone else. Everyone’s personal pain is valid and needs to be cared for. Let’s have compassion for each other!