I’m really trying to be happy, but I can’t. I’m 47, caretaker for my mom, and last March, I lost my dad. I feel like I don’t know who I am. I want to go to K-Pop concerts, and see @jacksonwang852g7💗I want to laugh and have fun with friends without worry. As one old lady told me, “You just can’t have a life.” I had no idea😒 This is why I love K-Pop. It puts me in a good place mentally; it’s my escape. My dream is to travel, and take care of me again. Do I sound selfish? stay #stayatiny #engene

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43 分鐘內	Ava stayvillestray	Oh dear, tis too shall pass... Believe me, been there done that... It's hard and heart wrenching at the beginning but you will find your way... Hold on to your dreams it may be out of reach but you will grasp it... "You will have your life back"... Believe me
一小時內	Sanrio Chef sanriochef	I’m doing the same. Not selfish! You have to take care of you in order to take care of mom! I’m going to see J hope 🙂 do what makes you happy!
一小時內	Kimberly O'Connell kimmy.beth	Not at all. Especially as a caretaker, it's important to take care of yourself. It's really good to have an escape...something that brings you joy.
一小時內	Kat Aggie glamorousatiny	Not at all.
2 小時內	Dawne Britton-Estrada dawnebe	NOT Selfish at all! You're being honest and that's awesome. I am in a similar situation. My dad passed away 2021, mom diagnosed with Alzheimer's 2023 and I moved in with her to take care of her. My husband lives in our house 5 minutes away. Life is a challenge. It's a sad situation having to care for a mom that raised you. But it's a gift to be able to give back. Remember you are amazing!! I'm a super baby Stay (12/2024) and I thank God ever day for Stray Kids Stay. Hang in there!
3 小時內	Euridice Cruz eu_riza	You're not selfish I'm caregiver for my parents and I basically had to let go of any idea of going to any shows 😔 I'm 47 as well and K-POP has kept me sane for the past year. Being a caregiver is exhausting 🫂
5 小時內	SHINee's Back i.stay.you	No, you don't sound selfish and caregiveing is selfless and it's not always good for you. It's hard, but we do it anyway. Sounds like you could use some respite. If you can find help for your mom and take the day off to go to a show absolutely do that. You need to take care of yourself and sometimes that means stepping away for a little bit (if it's safe to do so). You deserve some joy in your life wherever you can find it.
6 小時內	Deanna Morgan damedeanna	You’re not selfish. I hope you can find some help so you can do things for your own care.
6 小時內	Claudia cmp381	Go to the concert! It’s one night. You’ve earned a respite. And you are far from selfish. You have to take care of yourself before you can take care of others.
7 小時內	Yut Gon Ktere katu_gonzales_yutronic	I am 47 too and I know how difficult is to be alone. But yes! Enjoy K-pop and J-pop I do too, I love Astro, Mrs GreenAple and the Rose. LMLY by Jackson Wang made me cry and heal, so, believe You are not that alone!