Oh dear, i am lost of words reading ur life story. I doa kan u semoga dikuatkan hati dan dipermudahkan jalan. Leaving your marriage feels hard but staying doesnt sound right either. Tentukan priority u skrg and start from there. Before its too late. I smpai skrg wish my mum tinggalkan my dad sbb my dad abuse my mum. Itupun baru financial and verbal abuse je xde fizikal pun. Can u imagine apa perasaan anak2 u bile tgk u kne pukul. Trauma nya akan smpai bila2 and akan ade dendam dlm hati mereka.

I hope u can find a way out of this soon..semoga Allah buka jalan utk u & ur kids. Kesian anak2 tgk mak dilayan sebegitu, kesian mak jgk sbb kena bertahan so that anak2 x takut. Maybe mintak tlg any single fmly member/yg baru grad utk tlg tgk anak2 sekejap while u cari proper helper.. dont make excuses for you POS of a husb, u deserve better dear

I read all you writings here. As a mother and a doctor too, im lost of words 😢 beratnya ujian u, kuatnya u juggling everything. In this holy month of Ramadhan, i pray for your wellness and safety. May this ramadhan bring hopes for you and children 🤲🏻

no one kat sini can truly fathom what you are going through. a lot of people has been telling you to this and that, throwing all kind of judgements to you, to your husband. its normal, this is social media only Allah knows what is going on inside your mind. only Allah understands. Ask for His guidance. If u decides to stay in the marriage, ask Allah to protect u and ur kids and guides both you and your husband. If you decides not to stay, ask Him to give you strength and a way out for everyone

Salute to you mommy. I still remember an advice from a doctor: Don’t trust anyone, true trust lies with Allah. When you're in need, He's the one who will always answer. So, turn to Him. Follow your heart. You are the only person that can help yourself. For my POV, bila ada physical abuse, thats a red flag in a relationship. Semoga Allah beri jalan untuk sis. Semoga sentiasa dilindungi. Insya Allah. You already contributed so much to the community. Thank You for saving people’s life.

Theoretically U only need 3 things fr a husband. 1)Financial support- mayb if he can support u more than 100% eventho he has other vices may still b acceptable. Otherwise he needs to give u no2 and 3. 2)Loyalty- loyal to u,no history of cheating or possibilities of cheating again. 3)Love- nobody in any circumstance wud harm a loved one. Masters prog is no joke. U need to sort out atleast 1 aspect in ur life to b able to continue. Only u can make dat decision ya n may Allah guide u.🥰

Hugs. Istikharah sis. Minta petunjuk dari Allah. Semoga Allah beri jalan keluar dari masalah ini. Semoga dipermudahkan segala urusan awk. Awk kuat, dan awk ibu yg kuat. Sy tau awk berusaha jd isteri yg taat juga. Tp ingat salah 1 maqasid syariah ialah menjaga nyawa. Sebagai Dr,selain jaga org sakit, Dr sendiri kena jaga diri sendiri dulu. Moga terlerai kekusutan awk ni 🫰

Hugsss!! I just wanna let you know that a relative of mine was also hit by her husband (now ex) during the few years of their marriage. He promised to change, and he did. But my relative dh takde hati. End up cerai. Pls make police report for every kejadian pukul. And pls leave him. My relative's ex was like that bcz his father pun sama, pernah pukul mak dia. And his mom said benda tu hal kecik. Mak enabler. So cycle tu tak putus, sambung dgn anak pulak. Pls save yourself n the kids

Next time borak dgn chatGPT je. No judgement. No crtiticsm. But commentaries and responds that you want to hear. Coz i do the same.